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writes:Hi, I really hope you can help me with this as it has being going on since march. I met a guy really liked him he said he just wanted sex ,which I was fine with at first but then my feelings started getting deeper for him. I told him this he said he didn't want a relationship just yet. So we didn't speak for a few weeks then he text me saying he liked me. He does bodybuilding and when he has done a show soon we will be together. But how do I know he is not just saying it cos he wants sex again? He doesn't text me or ring me or even come see me very much. We haven't spoken for three weeks now. And I don't know what to text him or even if I should should I wait until after he has done this show. Or should I never speak to him again? I have been very patient I have waited around for him for 8 month now should I give him until after the show or ignore him completely?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 If he likes you for you, then he would be showing you a heck of a lot more attention.
Yes, body-building is involving but you can only be in the gym for a certain amount of time a day before you start to really strain your muscles. Also, it takes a matter of seconds to send a text. His bodybuilding is a piss ass excuse.
In the beginning he specifically stated he just wanted sex, do you HONESTLY think that's going to change in a matter of months? No, sorry.
Don't wait another 8 months for a guy who is just after a little nookie. Move on.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 He has already said he just wants sex. You have already spent eight months waiting for him. You need to decide how much longer you are prepared to wait .... another eight months? Two years? Five years? Ten years. If he hasnt shown any interest in the past eight months in any part of you but your sexual abilities you should take the hint and move on.
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reader, happytime +, writes (25 November 2011):
He just wants to have sex and is telling you what you want to hear in an attempt to get what he wants. Forget about him. Lose his number.
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