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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: So, there is this guy that i have known since the 7th grade. From middle school until the end of high school I was best friends with his sister. However, after high school my friendship with his sister faded. I have always liked him since middle school it has been on and off with him. I always had a feeling he liked me I just was not sure he comes and visits me at my job at least twice a week!! He comes out of know where sometimes I have the feeling he likes me but then again I get mixed signals. Recently, his gf of a year and some months broke up with him. After they broke up he started coming around Because when they got together he stopped coming around. The first week after they broke up he comes to my job and starts talking to me about her I was a little annoyed because I feel as if I am not there to give him advice. I work in make up at a mall but he doesn't need make up. Sometimes I wish he would stop coming to my job because I am confused if he likes me or not; or i don't know if hes just bored. Either way when he starts coming around I start to like him again. I do not want to him to play with my emotions or feelings a few weeks ago he came to my job at least five times in one day!! He was talking about his ex, I got mad and told him I have to get back to work. It was harsh but Its not fair that he can come around and play with my emotions. A majority of my coworkers believe that he likes me but I cant tell if hes coming around for comfort, or because he has a crush on me.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 March 2015):
He isn't over his ex and he wants a "shoulder to cry on" and YOU seemed convenient.
Honestly, I'd not get my hopes up. HE has some issues to deal with before he should even be considering dating, UNLESS you are willing to be his rebound.
And nothing wrong in telling him you are AT WORK that he needs to get going.
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