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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Met a guy a while ago through work and recently added him on my Facebook. He didn't remember me but accepted my request and messaged me. We then exchanged a couple messages and he started asking what my weekend plans were. I told him and asked about his. He then tells me he has no idea what he should do on the weekend and ends his message with 'hmmmm what to do?" So I say to him we should go out if he wants to and give him my cell number. I never heard back from him.It's been about two weeks now. So is he just not that interested or did I scare him off by suggesting we meet up (although he seemed to hint at that a few times and there was really nothing else for me to say when he said 'what to do'). Why would he have started talking about weekend plans if he didn't want to meet up?So do I just leave him alone?Or do I message him just to say hello?I feel like I had a good thing going and I blew it by suggesting we go out (although as I said above he started hinting at weekends so I took his cue and suggested we go out). Because I feel it's my fault, I'm finding it hard to get over it.Is there any way to fix this, get him talking again?
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (6 January 2009):
it may be that you sacred him away when you suggested that you meet up or he actually had plans for the weekend and was just making conversation,now is afraid if he message you ,you will ask him why he didn't call
you can message him a 'hello' and see if he replies.if he doesn't its better to let him go.
if he replies don't ask him why he didn't call or suggest you meet up
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