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anonymous
writes: how do you know when your relationship is over? my partner and I are always argueing! and I just dont know what to do anymore! Iam pregnant, and love him but everything else in life just seems to get in the way of us actually enjoying each other anymore! when do you know that its never going to work? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): you know it's over when you get numb inside.. If the arguing is constant and there really is no good anymore then it's over.. Being pregnant must be harder now, but only you can tell if the relationship still has more good than bad. If it can be saved you might need counselling and if this is something you're both willing to do, then it's worth shot.. If not and you guys can't see eye to eye on anything then maybe its over.. Sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Hello,Sometimes a relation is over long before we realize it. Ask youself what you want out of a relation. Then answer of thats what you have?A relation should not be painfull or hurt. I am not saying that relations do not have some bumps.
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reader, roadman +, writes (3 January 2009):
Well try listening to what ever point is being made and not argue but in fact enjoy talking and listenings..Same goes for him..Dispute will for sure get in the way of enjoyment..Work on the art of talking and hearing each other sides of the story,and build understandings
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