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writes:I was in a controlling relationship and recently got out of it and moved back home with my family. I have met up with an old guy friend a few times this week. We always hang out in groups but I always notice that his attention is always on me. No matter how many ppl are there he is always with me, talking to me. Full attention for the most part. He has a gf too but she never hangs with us, I'm guessing shes away at school maybe. We walk arm in arm sometimes, he guides me with his hand on my back, he puts his hands on my shoulder when hes behind me, compliments me on how i look..what I'm wearing, he touches the back of my hair at times, hes told me I was pretty before, we seem to always be touching in some way..shoulders touching or something, we went to a theme park and we sat next to each other every time. There was one ride where I was forced to lean on him and he put both arms around me and said "that's better." He told me on the way home "maybe i should drive slower so i can spend more time with you." We always take a lot of pictures, just the 2 of us and he says how nice I look in the pic. I have known him for a long time, we have always gotten along really well. I don't know if I should take it as him being friendly or what. I know its prob. flirting. So what do you think??
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (27 October 2008):
 It sounds like he is flirting. However if he is and he's already got a girlfriend it's not a good thing. The attention he is giving to you now could be considered as a form of cheating. If he gives his present girlfriend so little thought, then it's most likely he will do the same to you if you hook up.
Stay friends but don't allow him to put you in second place. One bad relationship is enough, be cautious. Never allow someone to put you in a place to hurt someone else. (the other girl) Only when and IF he breaks off with his gal will he be free to pursue you.
Take your time hon and you will know soon enough and best wishes.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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