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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok going to be straight forward. I've had this weird on and off crush on this guy for about four month now (guessing here) it basically started when I went to the wrong class on the first day of school and I had to run across the school before the bell rang. I happened to get there on time and that's when I spotted him, couldn't help but admit he was cute. Well month went by and at some point we ended up in a group project together. My group was pretty weird and he started talking to me since everyone was all "bleh" I ended up asking him if it was his first year here and he blushed and said he's been in the same class as me since grade seven...needless to say I was embarassed but I'm awful with my memory.I ended getting real close to him and I found him shy, awkward, cute and just a great guy and he was really opening up to me. I stopped crushing on him when he got jealous and rude to me when I started talking to another guy in my group who was all alone (he wasn't part of our conversation and most of our members were gone that day) I found him being jealous (he admitted it) a bit weird since we weren't a thing. Month went by and we got closer and my friends started noticing my upbeat moods (I don't normally crush often and I rarely tell my friends either) they told me I should tell him how I feel...and tired of wondering and feeling all hopelessly in...crush land I called him...and that where things got weird. He turned into a cockey jerk! He was all "well lots of girls like me LoL but I don't know why,I've been told I'm super handsome..."I was really at shocked on how he seemed to have two personalities. He started to confess to me he's been in love with this girl (who doesn't love him back at ALL and never will! her words not mine) I was lost in words and swallowed my hurt and told him sure I understand and I offered advice to get her!I was really hurt for a couple days until I thought what if it was all an act? The asking for my number, study dates, late night texting the hints that everyone and I confused for actually being into me...I'm really confused. I started being cold towards him, like walking right by him when he calls me, ignore him when he waits to talk to me and text and basically everything. I'm scared that he was using me for bragging rights to his friends that he can bag any girl he wants...should I just let it go or should I ask him? (oh and if you haven't figured it already...I've developed deeper feelings for him) And does it seem like he just pretended to be that shy guy just to reel me in?
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reader, Pooki__11  +, writes (4 February 2012):
Been there recently in fact, and it has been a major blow to my self esteem. When they seem to be so into you and then it turns out they were also chasing someone else it really gets to you. It makes you wonder if all your instincts are wrong about people, and then you feel stupid because you took the chance on them (and deep down you thought they wanted you too), and then you want to hate them but you cant coz u still have feelings for them. Gosh sorry about that, that was just my rant. Id love to know what the heck u should do, it might provide some guidance for me. Take care lovely and lets not try to lose sleep over these jerks.
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