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writes:So here is a guy at my uni, he's new to the class. Lately he has been acting weird. He would talk to me and tries to open a conversation, at the break when I'm hanging out with my friends, he would come around and he makes a small talk and also tries to make me laugh. He also asks me random questions and sometimes he would turn his face at me and just stares at me for.like 10 seconds and I go like 'what's wrong? , he just says nothing,gives a grin and then he just continue at staring. Also , today when the lecture has ended, my friend was beside me and I was picking up my books, he was leaning next to my table and he stared for like almost a minute, I asked him 'whats up' and then I started laughing, he kept staring and my friend was like 'look he's still staring at you" I just turned my face because I blushed and got nervous. I don't know what he's trying to do, is he just interested in me? I find him cute, but Im not that attracted to him, just curious if he does likes me or not Reply to this Question
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (8 October 2015):
 That would annoy me- and make most people unconfortable, probably why youre blushing and nervous- It doesn't sound like you're really into him... maybe there's something small there on your part, but it's a very forward, almost aggressive way of showing his feelings, almost as if he's trying to force you into like him... seriously? it's weird behaviour. Isn't it much more charming and WHOLESOME behaviour for a man to show some reserve and shyness- it shows he's not an overly confident playboy, and this guy sort of borders on sleeziness. It's a bit creepy... he's either objectifying you, or, like the last poster said, weirdly infactuated with you, he barely knows you! If youre not interested make it clear to him by avioding eye contact, closed off body language and avoiding him- it's not nice to reject someone but sometimes it's got to be doneTake care!
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reader, Blod +, writes (8 October 2015):
 From what you've said, I would think that he likes you. Trying to get your attention, making conversation and trying to make you laugh (in particular) are pretty classic signs of a guy liking a girl.
The 10 second stare thing could be that he's just observing you, trying to work out what you're thinking and get to know you better through watching you. The prolonged staring is a bit weird though, and I wouldn't blame you for getting freaked out by it!
Staring for a long time could again be observational or a tactic for getting your attention, as you can't really ignore someone who is continuously staring at you! Personally, I think it's a little weird - it gives vibes of him having more of a fascination with you than fancying you. Either way, it sounds like you've definitely caught his interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2015): Yes i think he likes you and he's just hanging there in space waiting to see if theres anything more you could say like "why dont you come to the cafeteria with us..we wont bite your head off...or any other kind of nonthreatening trivia.Does this guy know you from any other walk of life because he may be waiting to see if you recognise him or maybe he just wants to feel included and have someone to chat with occassionally after lectures .Invite him to the caf and then question him very thoroughly about his life as if he were a long lost brother who has just arrived from overseas with a lot of news to tell,if only someone would make him feel welcome. It doesnt have to be sexual, but it does have to be friendly and more chatting to him, than about him, until you get more info from him.Perhaps he looks too cute for his own good and people dont bother to really get to know him!
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