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writes:I've had a crush on a classmate of mine for a while. At my lunch one of his buddies yelled out "hey (his name) likes you." For a while he was always staring at me in class and asking me to borrow my pens and always sat near me. Despite all of this he never really talked to me and whenever i tried talking to him he didn't say much back. I was also walking in the hall and one of his buddies said "hey thats the girl that like (his name)." Now he doesn't even seem to notice me. He walks right past me in the hall w/o even glancing my way and seems aloof. I've tried talking to him. He even tried talking to me. By asking me "Do you have a game today?" since we both play basketball. And he would ask me to borrow my pen and always seem to touch my knee when I sat behind him in class. The day his friend shouted out "Hey (his name) like you" when he was outside his friends were saying it ok to like me but he just walked away and seemed embarrassed by what they said. All of this happened a year ago. So I'm not sure if it still matters. Analyze my situation and please tell me whats up with this guy?
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Well, I think the question is do you like him? If you like him then you should start sending him signals to let him know if you are too shy to tell him. When walking by in the halls say Hello_(his name)_ how are you today, give him a big smile and continue to walk on. Do it often but not in a creepy way. Find out what he is into....then you have something to talk about. While you are talking lightly touch his arm not obviously and if he doesn't quickly move it away...I think he likes you. Most people will not let you in their personal space unless they like you! Hope this helps! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This does sound like a classic case of him liking you. The problem with guys is that it's hard to ask a girl out or even talk to them in public because of the uncertanty that they are going to say the same thing back. I didn't pluck up the courage to ask my girlfriend out until she was practically trying to snog my face off. He may have been embarased to talk to you (the friends don't help in any way as they will only highten the embarassment). I would try to talk to him when he hasn't got his friends around or even better get his number and text him telling him how you now feel about him. The best way to do it is to say everything so that if he told you about his feelings then it wouldn't be so bad for him. One thing to make sure about is not telling any of your feelings towards him to his chummy mates as they will ridicule him into the ground about it. But if he has stoped trying over a year ago then he may have decided that you don't like him and decided to look for other girls. The only way to get him is to tell him how you feel and and maybe some good old flirting as he might then realize that you do like him after all (boys as you may have found out can sometimes be notoriously thick).
Hope this helps!
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