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writes:About 9 month ago I met a boy, I fell for him straight away but he is no my bet friend. I told him a few months back that I liked him, to which he replied "I don't like you in that way", so I kind of learnt to see him more of a friend and see other people which took the romantic aspect of our relationship away. However, recently we have grew close and closer, and he has been constantly complimenting me or we've been arguing like an old married couple. he told me he loved me last night and he has been having sexual dreams about me!! but I do really like him, but I don't know if he is joking around, if he likes me or what he is very indecisive! do you think there is anything between us or am I over-examining things..again!? lol Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (19 March 2013):
Make him wait for sex. That usually bears out a mans true intentions.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 March 2013):
 I would call him on it too. BUT IF you two do decide to try the whole BF/GF thing.. TAKE it slow and DATE with no sex for a few months, see if you actually work as BF/GF.
It could be that he likes the fact that you were into him and is trying to bring that back out of you.
Has he asked you out? Or just sort of teased you with the whole "i love you" thing? If so, I'd be wary. Because that seems more like a guy looking for a "fwb or a quick roll in the hay.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 March 2013):
 The statement that he's operating on is "I don't see you as a girlfriend." If he wanted to date you, don't you think he would have asked you out by now?
I agree with So Very Confused, call him on it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 March 2013):
 Ask him, "have your feelings changed for me or are you just screwing around with my head" and tell him to fish or cut bait.
either he wants to date you or he does not. If he does not but he continues to tease you with "potential" he's playing a stupid game.
if he's stringing you along I'd end the friendship as he may not want you but he does not want anyone else to have you and that's not acceptable behavior in my opinion.
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