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writes:I was working a temp job for the summer. I happened to meet one of the owners of the company one day, and we talked for a while. I noticed an instant attraction between us. He was not my direct boss, so I only saw him maybe once a week going in and out of the building or in the conference room...but we always talked for a while. Someone who worked at the company mentioned he was separated from his wife. Long story short, when my temp job was over and I was leaving for another job, I went to his office and gave him a piece of paper with my phone number on it. His assistant sits right outside, and the door was open, so I didn't want to say anything. He looked at it and said "I'll keep this for when I need it" What does that mean? booty call? although I Wouldn't mind because I just broke up with someone and don't want anything serious but we definitely had chemistry
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 August 2017):
 Just because he looks you up and down does not mean he doesn't do that to every other young girl in the business and it sure doesn't mean that he is going to ring you for a booty call. You are being very presumptuous. He might store your number in case a vacancy comes up. Surely if he was interested he would have called by now, or even gave you his number?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2017): I answer questions as I see them. Sorry I didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. I think the majority of my readers may disagree with you. You didn't like my response? Nobody else has answered this question yet. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWiseOwl, I'm not an idiot. When a man ogles me and looks me up and down on more than one occasion, then yes, he's somewhat attracted or interested! No offense, but some of your answers are off the mark for women's advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2017): For when he needs it? Either a booty call, or when he might have another temp-assignment. You're quite presumptuous.
A good chat doesn't mean chemistry, or any particular interest in you. What you described sounds like he's being polite.
You need to think this situation out more carefully. Don't use your job-assignments as your dating-pool. He might just call your agency and offer them an unfavorable reference. I hope the quality of your work is top-notch. You're pretty sure of yourself.
Strolling into the boss's office past his assistant was very bold and flippant. It's also very disrespectful to both of them. You're a temp-worker, not the CEO. Your attitude was as if you were certain you have something going. You could be far off the mark.
Even if he is interested; you could have been more discreet for professional reasons.
Don't presume you know everything going on behind the scenes. You only heard he was separated from his wife, not divorced.
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