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writes:Is he going to pop the question....soon? Well here it is again he refers to my mom as MILHis mom gave me pictures of when he was little; he's asked me if he can be my daughters step dad? He's always talks of our future selling his current home and buying a home to call oursHe calls his house my house too and he thinks of when my daughter is an adult of the trips we can take together....He refers me as aunt to his nieces and nephewOh then when he was talking to me he said he likes gold and silver and he don’t like diamonds Out of the blue he said that this has got me all confused cause he said it wouldn’t happen never because were doing just fine ....and I’m okay with that fine and I’m not pushing the conversation in fact I’m not bringing it up at all Please help me is he giving me hints and I’m not reading into it I’ve asked friends and they say sounds like he’s going to pop the question but they go from relationship to relationship ....how would they know thanks ahead of time Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 February 2013):
 How long have you been together? Do YOU want to marry him?
Those are the important questions...
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reader, llifton +, writes (12 February 2013):
 It does sound like he's dropping hints left and right. However, you said he tells you that he doesn't want to ever get married cause you're doing just fine without it. So maybe all of this is his way of building a life with you without actually marrying you. If he's never planning on marriage, but wants to have a life partner in you, it would make sense to want to be your daughters step dad. And it would make sense he refers to you as aunt to his nieces and nephews. Because that's basically what you are to him already, without the actual label of wife.Anyway, anyone's guess is as good as yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2013): "Is he going to pop the question....soon?"No, I doubt if he planning to propose marriage any time soon, if ever. He's just telling you what you want to hear so you'll continue sleeping with him. Very easy for a guy to say whatever he thinks he needs to say in order to ensure he continues to get laid regularly and frequently (he "refers," he "asks," he "talks," he "calls," he "said").Don't believe what a guy SAYS, believe what he DOES (or doesn't do).
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reader, DV1 +, writes (12 February 2013):
 Sounds like he's dropping hints left and right...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 February 2013):
 to be honest the only person that knows is him.
However, it sounds to me like you want it and he's just giving you lip service to what sounds good.
If you want to know.... you have to ask him.
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