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writes:Hi, Im 21 and dating a 29 year old guy and i love him dearly but then i have secrifised a lot for him. he said he dont like my cousin and i must cut them out of my life and thats what i did, he told me that i musnt have any friends cuz friends are waste of time, now i dont have friend and he dont like it when i go out. even if maybe my manager arranges a teambuilding for us his staff he would refus me going. I can say maybe he is emotionally abusing me cuz he will do stuff that i dont like and talk to him about it and he will apologies but then do it over and over again. and now i feel like this love is taking all my energy, im so tired i dont even know what to do. When i do sumthing wrong by mistake he will make me feel bad and he will cry. i need help fast!
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (28 June 2010):
Hey Honey
Everything fun he has taken away from you.
Why, because he wants you to feel weak and at he's Mercy.
It's Time to contact your cousins and finish with this waste of space.
Good luck x
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reader, dave66 +, writes (28 June 2010):
Oh my god I cant even believe you need to ask that question. Read it back to yourself and there is your answer. But if its assurances that you are after then YES HE IS MOST CERTAINLY ABUSING YOU AND YOU MUST GET OUT NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. Any real partner would allow you to have freedom have friends and enjoy yourself. He sounds like a VERY DANGEROUS MAN with problems. How long before your not allowed to see your family or not allowed out the house. You must tell your family then pack your things and leave. Make sure you have a few members of your family with you when you do in case he comes home unexpectedly.
And if he starts to harass you then go to the police.
Good Luck
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reader, QZ  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Get out of the relationship AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. This man wants to control your life, and that is NOT appropriate. You have the right to live your own life! It's absolutely ridiculous for him to "not allow" you to go to team building meeting for your work! It's only going to get worse as time goes by, so you need to leave NOW while you have the chance.
No man is worth your freedom or happiness, and you deserve someone better who won't blame you for silly things or treat you wrong. Move on, and find someone who's actually worth your time, love, and effort.
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