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writes:Okay so I posted a question two days ago, this is just a follow up and I need some advice. So anyways, my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago because he couldn’t take me yelling at him anymore and because of my rude behaviour. The next day, I talked to him again but he wouldn’t listen to me, and acted very rudely towards me. I understand why. But anyhow, at night that day, he decided he would try again cause I told him how sorry I was and in a way I begged for forgiveness. He told my friend that he cant see me sad as he still loves me. He isn’t talking properly anymore, he’s very distant.Anyway my question is, is he trying again cause he wants to, and he wants this or is he trying because he feels sorry for me? He says stuff like oh its gunna take me a month to settle down and that he doesn’t like keeping everything in but he wants me to learn. I just wanna know if he’s trying again for us or for the sake of not hurting me? And if he is trying again, how long will he treat me like this?P.S-A guy’s opinion would be nice:).
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): I can't stand to be yelled at by people. It puts me right off and will avoid such people as they are emotional vampires.
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reader, acey lacey  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 i think you guys should talk about it! ask him what you need to do to make things go back to how they were (not you being rude--but your happy relationship) and tell him NICELY that you dont want a pity relationship and if its for real then he should act like it too..
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 I would say give him a chance.he did tell your friend he still loves you.
Goodluck
Kelly
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2009):
Well, he told your friend he still loved you, so from a male's perspective, I'd say that if you work very hard to prove you love him, and work hard to manage all the problems, things can be out back on track. Men don't generally bother unless they really are in love. But you need to work hard to prove you love him, because he's probably very wary of how you're going to act. So good luck.
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