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writes:My boyfriend said, "I think I'm falling for you." Now, he says "I like you A LOT!" We've been together for a little over a month now. And known each other since the end of last year. My question is could he be getting close to saying, "I love you?" maybe with time...? A few weeks ago he said, "You know you love me." I laughed and said, "No, you do." And then we were both quiet. Hmmm not sure what to think of that. Maybe it's his way to find out if I do, then say the "L" word himself. Reply to this Question
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Whether he's close to it or not, he is certainly enjoying his time with you. Don't push him. Nothing can ruin a relationship faster than saying the L word too fast and then realizing maybe you didn't mean it.
I'm in the same boat as you are. My BF and I have been together for a while, and I love him and have told him so. He has been burned really badly with his past relationships, and is really waiting until he knows for sure before he says it back. I am completely ok with this, since I know that when he does finally say it on his own, it's because he will mean it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): It's just a play on words. They're all one and the same. If you think about it, what goes beyond love then? Think of it as shade of emotions and connections rather than simply a string of words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): yeah he could be, certainly sounds like it. Surprised to read you're 26-29 and asking this! I wouldn't worry about it. Let time take its course and if your relationship really blossoms then you'll be falling over each other to say it all the time!
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