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Is he beating around the bush in asking me to hook up with him again? Or is he just friendly?

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Question - (2 October 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I hooked up with this guy about a month ago, and we exchanged numbers and stuff (I had hooked up with him a few months prior to that but never got each other's numbers or anything, and by hooking up, I mean we performed oral sex on each other and then cuddled and fell asleep together). A week after that he texted me and told me that he had a good time with me, but that he wasn't really looking for much more than that, but that I should call him or text him any time I felt like hanging out. I told him I was fine with it since I have a lot on my plate as it is and barely have any time for myself let alone a relationship. Later that night he texted me asking if I wanted to meet up (to hook up again, I'm assuming, based on the nature of the language on his text messages) but I declined since I had already made other plans.

Since then he has been texting me or messaging me on my facebook every couple of days just to say hi and see how I am doing and what I'm up to, or he will kind of just fill me in on what he had been doing that day or things like that. My question is, is he beating around the bush in asking me to hook up with him? Does it seem like he's trying to get me to be the one to arrange a hookup? Or is he just a friendly guy that wants to be my friend? Or is it something more? I'm confused...

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