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26-29,
*pple-pie
writes:dear qupid what would if this was you? my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year now and 3 month when we were dating he wasent really serious about me. he admited he was still in love with his ex girlfriend who broke up with him for about 3 years. then 2 month after that i found out he has been giving girls his number and he lied to me his friend been giving them his number. so he break his cell phone and said admited he was dumb. so once agian we started all over. he propose and we were about to get maried till he couldnt tell this other girl that we were goin to get maried so i broke it off. now were just girlfriend and boyfriend. now he said hes trying to prove to me i am really the one. so he stop smoking, dont drink as much because i dont like it. but i hate it when he trys to impress other girls. now i see that he trys but then again hes been breaking his promis and rather hang out with his friends. so he trys to prove it to me by buying a house together and trying to make things work. i love him but i dont know how i can trust him. i dont know if he really loves me. what should i do?[moderator note: possible error in poster's age]
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reader, apple-pie +, writes (5 June 2008):
apple-pie is verified as being by the original poster of the question oh im sorry about that i am 20 years old. how do i cange the age on this?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 June 2008):
 The trust issues in this relationship sound very troubling. I think I would take a break from the relationship and try to work out what it is I would like for a future. Then if he has proven himself to be trustworthy, I might consider taking him back, but I would be very very careful about moving too quickly.
PS Your age shows as 10-12. How old are you? This might help with giving advice for the next auntie.
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