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anonymous
writes:Is having a really intense and perverted makeout session as good as sex?Soo....Let's say me and a guy had a makeout session...with me in panties and him only in boxers.....and he ejaculated through them and onto my stomach....and then he grinded on top of me until I O'd...and before all of this we'd rolled around for an hour or two and he fingered me....Is that as satisfying as having sex, and would he be happy with that if we got together again? I loved it, lol. Also, yes I know there's some risk, so I'm already on the BC pill.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 December 2014):
 Sweetie, that IS sex. What you are thinking about is intercourse. You did not have intercourse, but you did have sex. As yes, sex is quite satisfactory.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2014): Thanks everyone, but especially at Honeypie's answer!!! I'll take all of that into account for sure, and I'll definitely tell him to use condoms.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 December 2014):
 Will a guy be satisfied with humping (which is basically what you did)? Well, he got off, but at SOME point in time he will WANT to penetrate.
For YOU however, it might be a LOT better (at least when you start out) because most women do NOT orgasm from penetration, but from clitoral stimuli (which is what you got with the rubbing and humping).
Even IF you are on the pill INSIST on the guy using a condom. Make it a "golden rule" - and I'll tell you why. If a GUY can't/won't buy or wear a condom, he really isn't READY for sex, because IF your BC pill failed (and again it CAN happen)and you two had to face the possibility of a pregnancy, NEITHER of you would be mentally or financially ready or able. It can also lower the STD factor. Because THIS guy MIGHT not have had sex before, but how about the next?
Second part of my advice? If you are OK with the "humping" and no more, then DO NOT say yes to "more" till you REALLY are ready. (and that means not saying yes in the heat of the moment, but being able to also say NO if you aren't).
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reader, lifesgreat  +, writes (4 December 2014):
it can be ! And even more so with Women .
In regards to the man, usually if you have a long period of 'dry Humping/grinding' Eventually he will end up ejaculating.
But yeah don't rush into it , enjoy all the fore play before etc and that will be better for you.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 December 2014):
It can be, but for how long? If you keep it up you'll be having sex in no time. If that's not what you want than slow down a little.
You should have condoms just in case. Also, beware of any guy saying "just the tip"!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2014): Yes it can be and yes he'd enjoy it again, if you do have sex use condoms as well. Good for you for being on the pill
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