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*ovingceasar
writes:recently for new yrs i had a party at a relatives house. i was chilling w/ my friend and i told him to flirt w/ this gorgeous girl i saw. he does. he says its my turn because he was unsuccesfull. i said no cuz shes my 3rd cuz`. later me and her are talking at dinner and i found i really like her. i know she feels the same b-cus she kept flirting and holding my hand..=she is a cousin on my step dads side... but my mom and him have been divorced for a few years now.my 3rd cousin and i met for the first time and realy feel as though we are ment for eachother and arent sure if this would be ok .my step dad raised me fr 10yrs but im unsure if that would consider my and my cuz to be related! PLEASE HELP ME. WERE NOT BLOOD RELATED JUST BY MARRIAGE. I REALY WANNA LOVE HER FOREVER = what should i do?... i was wondering if i should go for it and date her?.....i just turned 16 and shes 15ALSO, ITS USELESS nomatter what i try i always get nervous round girls, what should i do to be relaxed around them........
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reader, lovingceasar +, writes (5 January 2011):
lovingceasar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the help::::::im gunna go for it::::::: i will post later and tell you what happens
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reader, Illithid +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I'm pretty sure it's both legal and safe to marry a third cousin even when you ARE blood related, but in this case? No sweat at all unless your family is really judgemental. Go spend more time with her, hang out, watch movies, be close friends and see if anything develops.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I think that you should both go for it, you are not blood related therefore there is nothing wrong with dating this girl, it sounds like you have both made a connection so dont put it to waste go for it and see what happens you are not doing anything wrong.
As for being nervous around girls that is normal for a guy at your age, you need to build up your confidence and not be afraid of talking to girls. Just talk to them like you would talk to a friend get to know girls better. The more you get to know a girl as a person the more you will feel relaxed around them. Goodluck.
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