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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for all your advice its helped me a lot have a good bank holiday
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Of course I am talking about 5" when erect!! Jeez, if it were 5" when soft, it would be 10" when erect..you're worrying about this too much. I have had over 20 partners & my current b.f. is among the smallest in the pants, and it doesn't make me love him any less.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): You can't be absolutely sure that what she told you about having all these well hung males, is the truth! Why do some couples do this..they talk about all the facts, the unecessary details of past relationships and all I have to ask is ...why? That to me, is a very self-involved, uncaring thing she did to you. This type of 'talk' just causes resentment, insecurities and knocks a good relationship, off balance. What purpose does it serve, knowing all this? How immature..this is what high school students do. Tell your gf you don't give a hoot about what sizes they were and that this topic is closed. I hope you have the wisdom and confidence to work this through, because telling you this information like this was totally self-serving and highly inappropriate in an mature, adult relationship. I'm not sure if you can work through this. It will take time and a lot of reassurances from her. Tell her how this affected you and learn to like who you are and realize you do bring more to the table, than the size of your penis and what you can do with it. I would think one's character, personality and good, kind nature should factor into what makes a good relationship function well. Good luck.
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reader, lovehate  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 thats not errect. Dont worry!! Honestly its the TECHNIQUE. Show her a good time with the way you do things. FORGET about the size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe 5 inch and pencil thing is that errect or not and ive not been on computor before so sorry about spelling etc
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy partner has had sixteen well hung lovers my confidence is rock bottom i dont want to lose her but this size thing is affecting me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): As long as it's at least 5" and not pencil thin, it is ok.. I like being on top anyways so I don't like one that is too fat and big because it hurts.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (22 August 2007):
It is'nt the size. It is the technique and the way you use the penis when it penetrates and is inside. That is all a woman wants.
Don't worry, lots of men feel their size is'nt good enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
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reader, smeedle +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Tricky one to answer as im sure you are feeling your penis is very small and so useless, well let me tell you that I have slept with a fair share of men and most think there penis is small until you have it pointed out that in fact it is average.
Like the other agony aunts say it is not the size it is how you use it, well foreplay is indeed very important, you need to make sure a woman is turned on and wet before entering her, make foreplay the most important part of sex, it should be used to excite both of you and then when you enter your partner then the size of your penis will not matter at all as she will be so turned on and want you so so much.
You need to practice different positions, as if you really are not well endowed positions like you entering her from behind will help both of you and you against a wall with her feet on the wall will again give her deep penetration.
Practice makes perfect and if you put the effort in before penetration then the rewards will be there.
Don`t stress, women dont mind what size your tool is as long as you love and respect them and want to make them happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks skye i just feel very inadequate in the trouser dept
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (22 August 2007):
 no big isnt always best although some like it large and some like it small differs from women to women really so dont be to worried or down about this not all men are large hope this helps A xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have had several relationships with women but would like an honest answer to my question from a female.ps thanks kenny
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reader, skye +, writes (22 August 2007):
 No, big isnt always best. Sex is psychological as well as physical. I believe that most people would prefer their partner to be loving, caring, thoughtfull, trustworthy and sensitive to their needs. This is when we feel most secure and comfortable with our partners so intimate relationships cannot fail to benefit.
Skye
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): no being big does not mean better,its how you perform thats important
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 August 2007):
 I think alot of women will tell you that big is not necessarily the best. You could have a really huge one but if you did not know how to use it would not be generating a huge amount of pleasure for the female. equally someone could have a small/average one but uses it in the right way would be far more pleasurable.
So the saying goes its not how big ones appendage is, its how you use it that counts.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): it is not about size...toooo much, more of how you use what you have. as long as you can work it and ride her good she wont really notice the size.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Big is not best, where did you here this? Why do you think the saying "it's not what you've got, its how you use it" is so popular? A woman's most sensitive spot is only just inside the vagina so why does the length matter? Stop worrying!
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