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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. She is everything to me. She is married and says she loves me, sometimes i believe her but other times i am not so sure. When we are together she says it is everything she wants we really struggle when we are apart. She says she doesnt sleep cause she thinking about me. She tells me when she sleeps with her husband it no mean anything and when she goes to bed she just thinks of it as going to bed not taking any notice of him beside her. NEED SOME HELP. NOT KNOW WHAT TO THINK. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Hi iknow where you are commig from. My married lover just left to go home to his wife. I've told him tonite just like every nite I wished he would just stay. He is starting to get very furstrated with me because I tell him that but I can't help it, when he leaves I'm all alone.he goes home and says all he does is eat(even when I fix him dinner every nite) shower, then goes to bed. He says she sleeps in another room??? When he leaves I cant stop thinkin of him. Tellin me this just to make me feelbetter about him goin home to her. No kids involved they've been married for 30 years. He has told me once he loves me. I tell him more than once a day.I don't know how much longer I can take being #2. I just wished I could find someone who was single then I could be open bout my feelings and them not make me feel bad when I tell them how I really feel. Its been 9months I don't know what to do either. Sorry I can't give u any advice but I do share your hurt.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 What I think you have here is a sexual affair with an unsatisfied married woman. You already know that, but for you to become emotionally involved is a mistake. If you choose to enjoy her sexual pleasures, well, that is up to you. But falling in love with her is futile.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Hi honey, I hate to say this but my mother went through the same thing, except with a man :p.
I know you are in love with her, but if she was sooo in love with you, why would she still be with her husband.
It isn't right to her husband or to you.
You need to talk to her and tell her that you don't want to be second, you want to be with her....here's the downfall:
If she refuses to leave her husband.....she may not be in love at all......:(
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