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Involved but now he's asking for space!

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Question - (31 December 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 41-50, *urtin 4ever writes:

Hi

I have seperated with an abusive man and my old friend from high school has also separated with his spouse. We are both going through alot and we both are having issues with children issues. We have been romantically involved for some time and lately he has asked me for space. He clarified it that he doesnt want to end it but he needs time. He told me that by probing him it will only make things worse and that i am pushing him away.I told him that if he wants to end it, he should just tell me so that we both can go on with our lives. The sad part is that i really need him through all this and he just wants space.He doesnt live in the same province and will be going back in a few days time.He does not text or call even if i text him. Should i ask him how much space he needs and if i should end it? If it is gonna be over i want to give him his stuff back because then i dont want any memories of him. Am i being too impulsive???

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