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writes:I met this girl in sumer school and I noticed her on the school bus so the next day I talked to her, everything just went so perfect and I got her number and everything, at the beginning we talked to much and had so much chemistry and got along so well, once summer school ended we would just talk all day and all night, there were even times when we talked from ten at night to like five in the morning, after two months I told her I loved her and she told me she loved me and we were just so happy together, she couldnt really go out so we waited for about three months for each other until school started, she was a freshman and I was a junior, and everyday we were together and even when there was nothing to say we would just be happy that we were together, but slowly and slowly she started to hand out with her friends and I respected that but after a while she started hanging out with her friends more and more and was not with me as much, pretty soon she would only hand out with her friends and there were times when I would ask her if she still cared about me and she said that she loved me and that she gave me her heart and that would never change and that she just needed a balence to have her friends and still have me but one day it seemed like she was ignoring me so I asked her what was wrong and she said that she didnt feel the same anymore annd she wanted to take a break but I could see it in her eyes that she really didnt want to be with me anymore so I just broke it off and she seemed happy after that, two weeks later shes going out with some guy to winter formal, this is actually the guy that she liked before she met me and got with me instead, and people tell me that she said that she just didnt like me anymore and that it was definitely over between us and that she was tired of lying about how she really felt about me, even now when I see her I try to say hi and she just says hi and walks of or starts walking faster, we were together for four months and the first two months were great and the last two months everything just started fading, I still love her and dont understand how she could tell me she loved me all those times and all of a sudden just not care anymore, is there anyway I could fix this? could she ever love me again? and if so, How do I do it?
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reader, Jamit +, writes (6 December 2008):
You not the only guy with this problem. I went out with a girl for 2months and about half way threw I told her I loved her and she told me she loved me back. I went away for a week.... And boom she likes another guy and not me
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