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male
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36-40,
*hatethis
writes:I don't know where to turn to. I want to ask silly questions like "how do I make the pain stop?", but I know there is no easy answer because I've felt this once before. My problem, other than being dumped out of the blue by a girl I loved, is that I have nobody to talk to. I'm away from home traveling, and the person I've invested all my time into for the past months was her so I've made few other connections. The few friends I have here aren't close enough to whine to, without it being a little strange. I have nobody to turn to, she was my best friend out here.For some reason when I talk about it to someone it feels a little better, even now typing this is allowing me to vent.My other problem is that I'm scared for the future. I'm not the kind of person that falls in love easily, usually I date someone a little and feel nothing and move on. My first real love was a few years ago, and in those years I went on a million dates and met a lot of women but not once since then did I feel a spark with any. So already its hard enough for me to feel something, nearly impossible actually. But now I'm afraid I'm going to "clam up" even more with my feelings because I didn't see it coming at all, we were having some trust issues as I suspected something was going on, but she literally went from the most caring loving eyes to the next day probably cheating on me and looking at me without sympathy as she broke up with me.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Dude, just open up a new word document, have a few beers if you have to and just write. Write everything down, even if it makes you feel like a crazy person, who cares? nobodys going to read it. Then either throw it out or re-read it when you need. Just vent it out, then focus on brightening up and moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): listen....u are always goin to have ur ups and downs but u have to keep ur head held high. so wat if she dumped u. you dont need her she must not be the one. its goin to be tough no doubt but trust and believe that one day u will find that girl thats right for u
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