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writes:Alright, i have several questions. I have been friends with this girl for several years. I have told her how i felt a few times and each time, she kindly rejects me.Yhe last time i told her how i felt was about 2 fridays ago. I really really like her. But for some reason, she keeps on flirting with me. What Do i do? Why does it seem i have fallen for the girl i cant ever have? How can i get over her if she wants to be my friend and wont leave me alone? Should i ask her to the school dance? or should i take another girl(which seems to me as a desperate attempt to make her jealsous)? Am i pathetic for liking the same girl for over two years even though she wont give me a chance?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Be more specific with her. Ask her to the Friday dance or the Saturday Football game. If she keeps saying no, give it up an try another girl. Is she doesnt agee to go out with you, she may be relieved to see you go out with another girl.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (13 September 2007):
A lot of times we fall in love with what we cannot have...that isn't accurate, we WANT what we cannot have and it kills us inside and drives us crazy. It's basic psychology and a fact of being human.How to get over it? You probably can't if she keeps so close and is being such a damned tease with mixed signals. Maybe you should ask her why she flirts with you so much if she doesn't want to go out with you. Is she like this with all her male friends? In either case, you should probably just move on.
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