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writes:Hey yall I will start from when I met her I was in the 11th grade and we had a foreign exchange student from Germany I really liked her so I got the nerv to ask her to prom and then we started talking more and the more I like her and then she told me she had a boyfriend in Germany but we started hanging out at each others house and then I took her out to eat one day then I took her home and walked her to the house and then she said that she is sorry that she could not kiss me couse of her boyfriend and I relized that I could hurt her by making her choose between us 2. And I just liked her so much that I did not want to hurt her so after 6 months she went back to Germany and I spoke to her 2 times withen 2 years and I did not want to talk to her couse I knew I would start liking her again then one day I just talked to her and she told me that she was single then I just thought this was my chance so I told her how I felt and then she told me that she did like me when she was in America but not anymore. And it broke my heart it put a knot in my chest so bad that I could not breath just to know that I had her but I did not tell my feelings couse I did not want to hurt her. And now I don't know what to do please help me anyone Reply to this Question
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 If you had a gf you loved so much, would you want another man to do what you wanted to do, the point is, she belongs to another man with her heart in another place. You should admire her strength and loyalty to her bf, and hope you will find a girl who will be as loyal to you as she was to her man. It was not meant to be. Consider this, if she had left him to be with you, that would mean she's weak and could easily be torn away from you by another man and so forth. It takes a deep profound love and sense of loyalty to say no to someone who otherwise gives the clear indication he or she wants to be with them and nowadays thats few and far between to find in a mate. Remember her, and remember karma does pay back in full, so let her go, don't ask her to do something which will hurt her bf and cause her to be at odds within herself and soon, you will come across a girl who has captured your heart and soul, and she will cleave her own self with yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): you are not alone - i don't mean with the same woman! lol that would be really stupid. _ i mean with heartache etc.
the main thing is your heart is fine :) so you will love again. I promise.
However your pride is knocked (ok) and your head is your problem. get busy, stop thinking. go out enjoy life, when she enters your head push her out, think of the round the world trip you want to make (suggest avoiding Germany) get busy and stop thinking - dig a hole, do anything, just stop thinking. (and when you find out how tell me :))
if you don't stop please become a song writer you will make millions. just listened to Elvis ain't dead by scouting for Girls lol so like your situation.
Get Busy !!
Star.x.
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