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writes: I have two questions...firstly I think I am in love with my brother's best friend. He is 25 and I am 19. I asked him out once in an email, but it was just after he had split up with his girlfriend and he said it wasnt the right time. I have seen him looking at me when he comes round, but I cant help but think he just sees me as his best mates little sister? Anyone got any ideas, how I can tackle this one? Secondly, I went out for a drink a couple of months back with a guy and he told me that he had a girlfriend, but he was attracted to me, blah blah! The usual rubbish, but I have to talk to him at work sometimes two or three times a day, and we have started emailing each other, only silly flirty things. But I cant get him out of my head, and I know he has a girlfriend (she works with him!), but he said he likes me. Do you think he is just doing it to make his day go quicker? Help!
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 try again with you rbrothers friend, maybe he just feels a little awkward coz ur his best friends little sis.
secondly, leave that guy be dont get involved because then someone will get hurt even if its not you his girlfriend will get hurt and then hate you and there will be friction etc etc etc
go with the guy your more serious about, he probably feels the same way. youll never know untill you try
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reader, Smiler +, writes (8 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well lets tackle your second prob first ok yeah i agree with you he's just ahving a little flirting fun to make the day go faster although i'm not sure his girlfriend would agree cause he's out of order admitting he was attracted to you when in effect he's actually with someone else, but it does'nt sound to me like your taking that to seriously any how, having male friends is fine and dandy no worries there at all i have lots but flirting with this guy when he's attacted could end up with you getting your fingers burnt if his g/f finds out even though he is the one at fault here sweetie nip that in the bud before the blame lands at your door ok :o)
now back to your fisrt prob with your brothers mate... well the first time you asked him out your timing was a little off cause he'd just split up with his ex so fair enough but now he's had time to deal with that area of his life,get in there he obviously cares about you as he keeps checking you out when he's around so i would simply go for it ask him out, have some fun with him.... i don't think he'd see you as his mates little sister when your all dressed up to go out on the town with him if anything he'll be thinking how stunning you are looking an how lucky he is to have you by his side... so go for it have some fun....:o)
I hope my advise helped you out a little sweetie Good luck, if you ever need a friend to talk to or just some more advise don't hesitate to email me i'm always here for you ok... would like to hear from you again let me know how you get on ok..
You Take Care Sweetie X
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