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male
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anonymous
writes: My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dream about her a few times per week and never seem to forget about her. The first text she sent me said "I like you cos you don't try to act all cool like everyone else does and you just be yourself". I don't seem to be interested in any girls apart from her. She leaves school this year and I want to know if I should ask her for her number. One of her friends asked me if I still fancied her a year later but I lied by saying no. I often catch her looking at me in class. Do you think she likes me now after two years, as I always seem to see her glancing at me and I always see her close to me no matter where I am. She has shown me pictures of her pet horse in classes. I have thought about asking one of her friends for the girl's number but I think this may alarm her by thinking I am stalking her. One of my friends gave me her mobile number last time and I surprised her by sending a romantic text and we started talking from that point. If I was to get her new number what should I say on the phone because I always panic and run out of things to talk about.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (10 June 2006):
Dear Reader,
most definately in love!
Of course you get this girls number! She said herself she likes you for not trying to act cool so if u be yourself there is a major chance you won't run out of things to talk about.
Why would she think you are stalking her? She likes you, it's obvious, so if she did think you were stalking her (I'm sure she won't) she'd be proud to have you around! Go get her number, you like her, she likes you. What more do you want?
She'd be lucky to have you, by reading your problem I can tell she would be lucky to be with you and proud that you're her guy. I can tell you are not afraid to be a bit sesitive, as you're worried about what this girl may think, which is brilliant. You don't act like a fool to impress people, because this girl likes you for yourself. You're the man of her dreams. Go For It! Like I said, anyone would be lucky to know you, you sound like what most girls can only imagine. Follow your heart, find your happiness. *Friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know they're there*
All the Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
xxx
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female
reader, Smiler +, writes (8 June 2006):
Hey Sweetie
Well sweetie to be honest here whats holding you back your obviously into this girl and she used to feel the same about you due to all the quick glances etc... you say one of her mates asked you if you still liked her? you can bet she put her mate up to asking you that and was quite upset when her mate reported back that you said no, so you have some ground to make up here honey this girl is probably thinking you have forgotten she exsists but is secretly wishing you would take the bull by the horns and just ask her out you sound such a sweet guy there should be nothing holding you back here honey life is to short to wait around thinking about what might have been so sweetie my advise to you is bite the bullet and ask this girl out have some fun! sounds like any girl would be lucky to have such a sweet guy as you interested in her!!! :o)
I hope my advise helped you ut a little sweetie Good luck, if you ever need a mate to talk to or just some more advise don't hesitate to email me i'm always here for you ok... would like to hear from you again let me know how you get on ok..
You Take Care Sweetie X
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