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writes: Hey guys-I'm 13 and I fell for my best mate's (now 12 year old) sister when I met her three years ago. My friend guessed and was pretty fuming. Recently, on MSN, me and his sister were fooling around and we came to telling each other who we fancied - we both said - u-. Dilemma! Turns out she'd fancied me since we'd met, she had always been flirtatious around me. So we went out, but her being a year younger than me complicated things. We kept it a secret, then my friend guessed. He was angry and only wanted me as a friend if I dumped his sister. So I told my gf (his sis) what my friend said, and we agreed to continue going out, secretly. However, what do I do now? I can't really meet up with her, but the thing is- We love each other - I've never felt this way about any other girl and she keeps telling me she loves me! What do I do? Keep going out secretly? Or not? (P.S. my friend said he wouldnt mind us going out in a year's time when we are older.)
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 firstly Wow...young but doesnt make you love for each any less important then any others. you have to see that your friend is just looking out for his younger sister he doesnt want to see her hurt. big brothers will always be protective over there sisters. i know you love her but couldnt you wait 12 and 13 is a very young age to be thinking about love. you should enjoy your youth why you still can. but if you really respect your friend you two should wait until you come of age.
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reader, BIGmanwithaBIGheart +, writes (27 February 2006):
 I think you're a bit to young to be worrying about this sort of thing. But hey if you're serious! give it time, my mate just slept wit my sis and really liked her but now he has a girlfriend of 6 months and is happy. it might be a rebellious thing, i.e your friend did something to upset you and you want to get him back but you don't realise. explain to her that friendship is the strongest thing ever and maybe just be frinds until it feels right to go out again!
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