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In love with my best friends girl

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Question - (27 August 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

help i fancy a girl even though i haev a girlfriend already ... she is best mates with the girl i fancy. i wanna dump her for the girl i fancy ... sept the girl i fancy is going out with my best mate!! what do i do ?? im head over heels in love with this girl. help me x x emp_17@hotmail.co.uk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006):

Let's do some relative experiences shall we?

I have never fallen in love with a close friend's girlfriend/wife before. I have a very ethical rule: once a female becomes my friend's gf/wife, she automatically becomes my sister. With this in mind, whatever interactions I have with that person is as though I am her brother being silly and/or deep with my sister. She can only get as close as my friend is to me, but the exception is that no matter what scenerio, no matter where we are, what we are doing, my heart is always with my brother. His love is with her.

End of story.

As with your heart not feeling much for your current gf, you might as well break-up with her. There is no point in continuing. There are many other possible opportunities. Dragging on may cause even more pain in the future for your gf.

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