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In love with 2 guys, and the new guy in my life is still not divorced, what is a girl to do?

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Question - (5 July 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

[Moderator's Note: 2 qyestions from the same poster have been merged together]

When I took a break from a almost 2 year relationship, I met a guy 13 years older than me and now he loves me. I am back with the ex kind of, but am more compatible with the new guy. The only problem is he is still married separated 9 months and has 2 teenage daughters, which means not much time for me. The ex is 16 years older than me no children and loves me and has all the time in the world for me. What do I do help...?

I am young smart and attractive mature woman, met a man 13 years my senior whom loves me. He finally told me that no he actually was not divorced but has been separated for 9 months and its over. He says he dosent have the money to file for divorce and the ex says she will file. He just got a new job and works almost 15 hours a day, he has 2 daughters 16 and 14 that take up a lot of time. The ex has blocked my cell, home, and even other numbers I use to contact him he said he would fix it, its been 1 month and nothing. Am I being played here, when I am with him he says he loves me and I can tell in his eyes its true. What is a girl to do?

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