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writes: I have been in my relationship for 4 yrs, have 1 child, & getting married in 3 months. Although it sounds great, in reality I feel like I always have to walk on egg shells. I can never seem to do anything right in his eyes and in his families eyes. We argue everyday (like we're bro & sis). Definately about nothing serious. I feel like there's nothing I can do to bring back the love we both deserve to have. My mind is just racing a million miles per hr. I have to figure out what I need to do fast, cuz the wedding is in 3 mo. I can't stand the stress any longer! I know he is stressed too. He works over 60 hrs a wk. I feel like I don't know him anymore. I don't even know how to start conversation with him. Please help!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!....If you are having this problem now..it will only get worse...fix this or find a new life, one with a future that involves happiness for you and your child,having spent 15 years in your shoes darling, it is a MISTAKE to marry someone when you feel this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): Wow! I am so sorry to hear that. Marriage is not a solution to your problem, I would see a therapist as soon as possible. If he does not go, go on your own. Don't get married unless you are so sure. I was in a very unhappy marriage for ten years, you need to feel special, don't do it unless you are sure.
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