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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I have known each other for about two months and just started to fool around last week. We have a mutual friend and he told me that he said that he is looking for something long term and he doesnt sleep around. The first time we kissed, we were both drunk and after some talking and getting to know each other, he pressed himself against me and I said "Im not that kind of girl" He said "I know you're not but you cant blame a guy for trying because you're sexy as hell." I asked if he wanted to go slow and try dating and he said "We'll just go with the flow." We have been communicating about every other day and he called me yesterday asking me to come over to his place. I was there for a couple hours and we got to know each other more and then he walked me home. Two hours later, at midnight, he texted me and asked if he could come over and I said yes. We watched some tv and talked and he wanted to have sex again. I asked him if he was one of those guys that just wants to sleep with me and he said that he does want to sleep with me but thats not all he wants. I really dont know if he is dating me right now ONLY because he wants to get in my pants. My head and my heart are telling me two different things. Is he in it only for the sex?
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Seems like this is one of the situations where actions speak louder than words.
If he wanted something more serious, or at least was interested in seeing where things went, then surely you guys could do something that doesn't involve alcohol, coming over at 12 or just hanging out at each others house.
In my experience the guys that want more than just the physical side of things will take you somewhere OTHER than their houses, like on an actual date!
And unless it's some crazy impromptu midnight adventure, 12 o'clock messages are booty calls.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Make him wait until you stop getting ambiguous answers from him.
If he can't be straight with you, then you need to leave him on the "friend" list.
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