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male
age
30-35,
*nonamous_2010
writes:Ok here's my situation. I'm 19 and I'm dating a 28 yrd. We started off just hanging out then i moved in with her to help pay bills, then we started dating. Now she was in several relationships before me and suposedly cheated on in all of them. She also td me that she has been in a relationship since she was 18, and that she just wanted to date. So this went on for 5 months now I have fallen deeply I love with this women and she just wants to date. Although we act like were in a relationship it just doesn't gave a name... Now every now and then I can tell by her mood that something is going on, so I started going through her phone. She has told me on several occasion's that she loved me but u haven't said it yet. Anyways I have found pictures and text's on her phone from a guy ove 2000 miles away. She says their just friends but she doesn't know that I have seen the dirt pics she has hidden one our computer. About a week ago his wife called and told her to stop talking to his wife and she confronted him about it and he acted like he didn't have a wife. Now tonite before I went to the store she was feeling sick and was tired and when I got back she was in a good mood and was ok. So I got curious, I looked on her phone and found more pictures and texts from him..... I haven't said anything about it yet. I don't know what to do just drop this girl or actually try to confront her about it..... Please answer someone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Tell her the FWB isnt working because you have deeper feelings for her. If she cant give back the love you feel then move out and save yourself anymore misery x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 December 2009):
You're her lover, not anything else other than that. If you can't handle that, move on.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 December 2009):
She has told you repeatedly that she doesn't want a relationship with you.
At the moment all you are is a housemate she occasionally sleeps with.
If you can't handle that then move out. I always ALWAYS tell people that you NEVER get into a casual relationship if you want more.
Tell her you can't handle knowing she's with other guys when you want to be with her. Pay your half of the bills until the day you move out and then cut contact.
Move on and find a girl who actually wants a boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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