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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and for a year we have been tring to have a baby. Things went wrong between us and I started talking to someone else. We started messing around when my boyfriend and I broke up and got back together. Suddenly I became pregnant and had doubts if it was my boyfriend's or the other boy. So I told my boyfriend and told my mother, but then my mother told my side of the family and now I'm afraid that it's gonna get to his side of the family that the baby might not be his. What should I do?
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reader, beth05 +, writes (1 November 2005):
I thought the last person to reply to you was doing good until their last sentence. You have to be strong, it will be hard but from here on in you are gonna have another person depending on you so you need to be strong. Be honest with both the men. What happened to you is not such a big deal, lots of people have rebounds. it was just unfortunate that you became pregnant. Whatever happens do not blame your baby. If your honest with the men and they want to be involved in the pregnancy thats great, if not, again thsi is were you are gonna need your strength. Just remeber, you are not stupid and its just an unfortunate thing to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): Wait until the baby is born, and get blood tests. In the meanwhile, its nobody's business but your, and one of these two men. Which one it is will be determined by the paternity tests. Learn from this mistake. Its not the end of the world these days, as it might have been 100 years ago, but it does make you look a little foolish, don't you think? I mean, not knowing which man is the father of your baby ?
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