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writes:when i first met my current boyfriend, i told him i had had one sexual partner which was true. however before he and i became exclusive there was one more guy, but i didnt tell im about this because it was after we met and so im worried what he will think. now we are exclusive but i think its too late to tell him about second guy. weve both been checked for std so thats not issue just me worried about being deceitful. what should i do
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (9 March 2010):
Believe me when I say you should tell him , I think most people male or felmale would still rather have someone tell the truth about that then to hide it . You will gain his respect I think, Things that are hard to do are sometimes the most important in a relationship. There is a right time for everything and relationships need truth to them to be real. I live by this allways tell the truth about everything, being deceitful as you called it, will be hard to deal with as time goes on. come clean and l think you will feel much better and Im sure he will still feel the same . good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 March 2010):
You've both been checked, and you're clean. You had one last guy before you were with your boyfriend exclusively, so my advice is to say nothing. It's not his business, and will only make things a little more difficult if he's insecure. What has happened has happened, now move on and be happy.
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