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*ndrewJS
writes:Hi guys,Ive got myself into a bit of a problem here, you've probably heard all this before, but this is new to me and its driving me nuts!Theres a girl that I like...alot. Alot being I must be thinking about her once every 5 minutes, it's really hard to describe how I feel. Currently she has a boyfriend, but I know relationships at our age dont usualy last that long, so im stuck with that at the moment. I occasionaly talk to her on MSN but because we dont really know eachother that well, theres not much to talk about so conversations dont usualy go very far - I would love it if they did.If she becomes single, and after waiting for a while ofcourse, all my friends are telling me I should tell her, but ive got that feeling where Im worried incase she dosent like me, as I would still like to be friends with her - which would be awquard if I was rejected.Thanks alot for reading all of this, I hope you can make some sense of it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): How about becoming better friends first? Then you'll get a better idea about how much you really like her and how much she could like you... x
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reader, justadvise  +, writes (22 August 2009):
Ah, yes...I wouldn't say problem, a situation sounds better. This situation happens all the time. GO FOR IT. I have been in your situation before, I got rejected and later I was awkward with her and we went on our separate ways even though we still had class together. I didn't regret it though because I took my chances and i didn't have the "what if" question to bother me anymore. "The only decision you gonna regret is that one that you didn't take." I heard that from someone and it's every true.
As for the worry that you still want to be friends after, that's up to you. Most of the awkward comes from the guy thinking about she doesn't like you and don't want anything to do with you. Most of my "girls" friend that turn down guys says that "I don't know, he stop talking to me after that. I would have like to be friend still."
Hopes this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Yea you should go for it! I mean if she loves you she'll apparently say yes but i mean if it's not ment to be it won't happen!
I know you love her and really want to be with her but rejection is also a part of life and you are eventually going to have to face it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Go for it.. what's the worse she can say? Hell no.
And if she says that then forget her.
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