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writes:there is this guy who is 2 years older than me and we told each other a while ago that we really liked each other,nothing had gone any further than that but the other day i went to my friends house (not his!) and we got quite closeThen yesturday i got invited to his party,we got very close, he is very touchy feely so i was the same towards him becoz it was his party he had to see others aswell but ther was about 5 of us in his bedroom, me and him were on his bed and i was poring a drink into his mouth, while i was doing this he had his hand on my hips and it made me feel all cosy inside! i got the drink all over him so he had to change his t-shirt, i helped him do that but becoz i was drunk i fell on the ground and he was ontop of me, again nothing happend we just looked at each other.later on i was sitting up on his bed and he came and pushed me down, but on top of me.my friend decided to shout every1 get out lets leave them to it and we just sat there looking at each other, then they all walked back in. We kept on touching each other and i was nearly asleep on his bed, when i felt this hand touch mine and his head was next to my face we just looked at each other, he leaned in for a kiss and i backed out and i really regret it now!! i wish that we did!! When i had to go every1 was saying bye to him when i said bye to him i kissed him on the lips, it made me have butterflys in my stomach and i was so happy but later on that nyte i was so dissapointed that i could have screwed up my chances with him backing outit is all i can think about and i am worrid that he might think i am fridgid as i have never passoinatly kissed a guy beforam i just nevouse?should i just see how things go?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): If you think you are frigid, just tell him that you feel nervous around boys and you're not used to is. If he's meant four you, he will understand and go easy on you. If he laughs and walks away from you, then he isn't. If it gets too much, just admit that you're frigid.(mod note: correct spelling and complete words goes a long way)Original: If u think u r fidgid just tell him that u feel nrvous around boys and yr not used of it. If hes ment 4 u he will understand and go easy on u, if laughs and walks away from u then he isnt. and if i gets 2 much just admit dat yr frigid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwooi went out with him last night,we were really touchy feelythen he moved in for a kiss and i kissed him back couldnt keep our hands off each otherwent with him bout 17 timesi really like himwas holding his hand all nightslept next to himwe were on a sofa so nothing happenedwith bout 6 other people lolwe just kissed :Di love him :Di have an ulser on my tounge, is it true that it is becouse i kissed him with my tounge 1 time?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): Don't do anything with this guy that you wouldn't do with another guy who is a little less attractive to you.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (29 September 2007):
 Only do tongues if he does it first and kissing is natural dont worry yourself its a natural thing and it comes naturally
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): No, lips are much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI Am Going To Meet Him Tonight!!
How Do I Kiss Sum1
Shud I Use ME Tongue?
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 September 2007):
Dont worry so much its obvious he likes you just talk to him and he wont think your frigid just because you have never passionatly kissed a guy to be honest he probably wont care and kissing will just come naturally just dont think about it.
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reader, GS +, writes (23 September 2007):
i think that you should definatly go for it and see how things go between you 2 i dont think he will think any thing of you, so u shudnt worry, he oviously likes you so i think if u want to just kiss him everyones nervous 4 there first kiss but once it happens it will come natual to you, so y not? just go for it :) good luck X
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reader, GS +, writes (23 September 2007):
i think that you should definatly go for it and see how things go between you 2 i dont think he will think any thing of you, so u shudnt worry, he oviously likes you so i think if u want to just kiss him everyones nervous 4 there first kiss but once it happens it will come natual to you, so y not? just go for it :) good luck X
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reader, boo33 +, writes (23 September 2007):
dont worry about it. i msure he doesnt think your frigid or anything. u will have made it up to him by kissing him at the end of the night. im sure he still likes u. maybe next tiem when the situation arises just kiss him, then u wont regret not doing so later on. hope i help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): It's amazing how a drop of booze will loosen the inhibitions!
When you're sober try talking to him and tell him how much you enjoyed his party, particularly how you felt when you kissed him goodnight.
Things ought to progress from there if he's interested.
There's nothing quite like telling someone how you feel about them to let them know. It's a direct approach I know, but what's the point of beating around the bush?
It's fortunate that a load of other people were there otherwise you might have ended up doing something you later regretted. I bet they were all disappointed to have come back into his room to find you still had all your clothes on. I suspect they were hoping otherwise!
Phil
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reader, baybee-emz +, writes (23 September 2007):
 please dont worry.
he probably wont think that.
you were very drunk and as you say you were just about asleep, so he probably assumed you were a bit out of it anyway,
also you obviously didnt feel confortable at the time so dont regret it just learn from it :)
im sure you;ll get another chance. you 2 seem into eachother,
best of luck
if you need any more help gimmie an email
All my love,
Emzi xx
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