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writes:right, i am 23 and need help.I have been with my bf for 4 years and we are ready for sex, we aren't pressuring eachother, but i don't no any technics. I would really like help, but not the old relax and enjoy it stories.Please could you tell me how the penis goes inside and what to do after that and what positions we should be in.Thank youLX
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): you should try giving him a blojob first before sticking it in your vagina this will get him nice and hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): most couples only ever use 3 basic positions
from experience these tend to be missionary, on-top and doggy style!
if you are only about to do it then to be honest the best is the missionary!
the penis will go in a lot easier if you use foreplay first and i mean concentrating more on you than him then you will be well enough "lubricated" for it to slip in easily.
in answer to the "how does the penis go in?" question it is a bit duanting when you first see it and you think how the heck is that going in there , but if he has turned you on enough then trust me it will be fine. i would probable suggest exploring yourself first so you know what you want then if you two are honest with eachother you wll have a great sex life!
good luck and obviously use protection
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): No-one can tell you what's the best technique or position for you. Everyone is different but the general theme is the same.
Nature will take its course and so you'll go with the flow. If it feels good - do it, if it doesn't - don't! You'll get to discover what you enjoy and what you don't. The main thing is to tell him what's good and what's not otherwise he'll carry on in blissful ignorance thinking he's the best lover in the world, and you'll be looking at your watch over his shoulder. Make sure he tells you what's good and bad for him too and you'll both have a sex life to be envied.
As for positions, whatever is comfortable is acceptable. Half the fun of it is in the experimentation, so get in there and experiment! Don't believe anything you might see in porn films though - that's pure fantasy and all for the camera. Some of the positions I've seen demonstrated in them would cripple me for life! Likewise, don't expect him to perform like a porn star - they got the job because they are deformed!
Phil
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