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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have a very loving relationship with my boyfriend. But recently I've started to think my bf is bisexual, because of some things he says, the way he talks about other guys and the way he acts. I've spoken to my bf about this before and he says he doesn't think he likes boys, and told one of my friends that (in reference to boys) "anything above the waist and he's fair game"... does this statment mean my boyfriend is bi sexual? Even if he is I still love him etc...but I feel confused and lost idk....I need help. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Maybe he's bi, or bi-curious. It doesn't really matter too much. If you two are happy together, that's all that counts. Look at it this way: compare bisexuality to liking both blondes and brunettes. Just because you're dating a blonde doesn't mean you're going to turn around and chase any brunette you see. The same thing applies to liking boys and girls. If you're both happy in your relationship, he won't stray. You said you have a very loving relationship and that you love him even if he's bi. That's great! At the end of the day it's all that matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Well, anon...if you and he both are the age you have given...I think he would certainly know his orientation. I will just give you one statement of advice: If he has homosexual tendencies, you are asking for heartache if you want a long-term relationship with him. He cannot give you what you need and want in a relationship with a man. It just will not work. Sorry hon, but I am telling you the truth. Ask him point blank and outright..."Do you like and desire men's bodies"? If he is the least bit hesitant or unsure...break off the relationship. Get out of it and find yourself a real man who is so hot for you you have to hold him off with a cattle prod...(wink). You deserve nothing less.
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