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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so my day today was pretty much made by this guy lollast summer we met while partying, he was a "man whore" who owned up to it. I had no problem with him, I made it clear I wasn't interested in fooling around, and he backed off. He would message me on fb still hinting at sex jokingly, but after his initial whatever he chilled out about it and I found out he was a real sweet guy; def not your typical MW.he moved away and we sort of lost contact. I just assumed I was just another conquest that didn't play out, and that was the end of it. I am friends with a few of the girls he had one night stands with, and I noticed he was deleting them all of fb, but he didn't delete me (even tho we didn't talk anymore). he had told me earlier in the year that the whole reason he went rogue is because he had been in love, gave everything to a girl he thought he would be with forever, they had 2 kids together... and then she cheated on him and took his kids away. and after all that he literally just wanted to f*ck the pain away. in a messed up way I understood, so I never wrote him off as a person based on his actions.he's recently moved back... and changed. I used to respect him as a friend, and now I don't know what I feel for him. he's come to realize the way he tried to forget was wrong, he apologized (even tho he had no need to) for being so "determined" (lol) before. everytime I find myself thinking of him, he shows up... at my house, my work, he fb msgs me. and he's not vulgar anymore. he's ... sweet. he makes me laugh. just this afternoon he had been at my place, with one of his friends (my roommate) and he kept pulling me into their convo. an hour or 2 after he left I get a fb alert on my phone (I had just been thinking about him) and he goes "hey I know you hahah" so I decide to be a smart ass and say "what are talking about, I don't know you lol" and he goes "you don't know me, well you should spend more time with me and get to know me cause I'm pretty awesome" and reply "hmmm.. yea, I suppose you're decent" him "decent?! I'm f*ckin hot! lmao jk" and it went on from there. He had changed, I know he has; he was never heartless enough to be a true MW... he cared to much, always saying "jk" and apologizing if he thought I (or anyone) was offended by what he said. I just, I don't know. I told him before that the only way I sleep with people is if we're committed, he didn't want commitment, and it was understandable. but now I'm wondering, why the sudden interest in me? I don't think it's to get in my pants, because he def didn't have an issue with telling me that was what he wanted in the past.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 It could be genuine interest. If you pursue anything with him, make sure to take it slowly. Resist sex to be sure that's not all he's after. It couldn't hurt to go on a date if he asks you out though. It seems that you like him.
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