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writes:ok i dated this girl for over 2 years and i can't seen to get over her.okay this is how it started we first started dating and she asked to to come her friends b-day party with her so i agreed and went but it was the biggest mistake i ever made because it just ended messing everything up there was this other girl there she never stopped looking at me the whole night. than my girlfriend ended up getting a ride from her dad and i ended up having to wait for my ride than she started to talk to me. i was friendly because it was cold outside and i didnt want to freeze than i got home and that same night that girl called me i dont know how she got my number musta got passed to her by someone? well anyways we started to talk a lot i guess i talked to her because it i liked the compliments she gave me. than my ex found out and i guess it hurt her a lot and even after i stopped talking to the other girl.fast forward to the end i was out of town working things were going pretty good but i had a trust issue for some reason. i guess its because sometimes she'd say ridiculous things when we would fight like "my dog is going to die" or "my mom has cancer" which is untrue. so thing went good and bad than when i'd try calling her she wouldnt pick up or she would and say something like you can't call me i'm sleeping and than a couple weeks when i was comming back home she broke up with me saying she cant get that situation out of her head and she started to have feelings for this other guy and we went through the whole break up phase than friends phase. now we still talk but when she calls me shes always like "hows your lovelife" and she always brags about "ohh yeah we're moving in together", "we're getting married" i'm thinking we broke up in january this year so i'm wondering why she calls and tells me all these things because i still care about her a lot more than i should with the time we spent apart i know its long but thanks
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 well the reason she tells you these things could be any one of these reasons. 1. she sees you as a friend and just wants you to know whats going on in her life. 2. she wants to make you jealouse. 3. shes trying to convince herself that she doesnt want you anymore. 4. shes just trying to hurt you. 5. shes looking to see how you still feel about her.
now because i dont know her i cant say for sure her reason but i am fairly sure its one of these five.
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