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writes:Hey everyone I don't know if I should be mad at my boyfriend but he did something I didn't like. Ok so I called my boyfriend, he didn't pick up his phone, I wasn't mad though but my sister called him ( she's 14), he didn't pick up either. But later when he finally called back, he called her first. I'm kinda mad that he didn't call me first. He said it was a mistake, I know he's Lying because they were talking for like sometime before he got off the phone with her. Pls help should I be mad or just get over it? I think he picked her over me because he saw both of our missed calls( I called him first). Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2012): As Darkwind suggests, there could have been an innocent reason for him calling your sister first. Maybe it was a mistake but he kept chatting because it would have been embarrassing to mention he hadnt meant to call her! I have done that myself. Called someone by mistake, then chatted for awhile because I didnt want to offend them. It does happen.
But I do understand how it might have looked bad to you. I wouldnt get too upset about it though. Give him the benefit of the doubt if he is otherwise a good boyfriend, just remind him your calls should be more important to him and returned first in future.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 It doesn't sound like too big of a deal to me. So yeah, just let this one go :-)
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reader, darkwind94 +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I think it's normal to be mad at him for doing that. You're his girlfriend and he should be talking to you, not your sister.
He might have wanted some space if you guys were spending too much time together.
Maybe he wanted to ask your sister about you. Did you ever talk about something with him that he wanted to know but you didn't want to tell him? If you did, he might have asked your sister.
Try thinking it over a bit more and see what might be the cause, but don't jump to conclusions. He could have really just called her back first because she called last and that's how the list appears in his phone. In the meantime, try to occupy your mind or at least relax a little bit. Staying mad is never a good thing.
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