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*newiththerainbow
writes:[Mod Note* OP the title you suggested was already taken] Okay, when my crush and I run into some of his friends, i get the feeling that i have been the topic of discussion among them cause it seems like they already know me without saying anything... Then when we are in a group situation with some of his friends, it seems to be we are in a fishbowl and seems like everyone is watching us and I am thinking both situations come from the fact that he does like me and has been talking to his friends about it...Then, I find him staring at me when he sees me while with his friends and if I look over there, he tries to seem like he wasn't staring...Here are some things he's been doing1. We both have nicknames for each other2. He likes to tease me3. I have met his parents and had dinner with them4. He once said he didnt have money to do something and then a few hours later, we end up at the movies5. While at the movies, i catch himStaring at me and copying the way imSitting then a few times in the last month he has made an impromptu visit to my house- the first time he had to go to the store for his mom and then yesterday, he wants to come over to hang out and show me his new car while he was on his way to town- he lives a mile from me and he called to make sure i was home- then he came over and it seemed like he wanted to say something and we were talking a little bit, but not a lot and then he had to leave to get something for his mom....and I can't help but wonder if he was trying to say something or thought about it and didn't know how to say it...So I'm Just wondering because I hadn't seen him since we went to the movies together awhile ago and earlier that week I went to the store with him and he wanted me to call him even though he let it go to voicemail....So does this seem like someone is trying to tell me something??
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Go with your gut instinct, it's usually right. Good luck!
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reader, Onewiththerainbow +, writes (23 July 2010):
Onewiththerainbow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply!! Im glad someone else sees this as I do.. I am pretty sure that he doesnt want to change things between us and he is fully aware how i feel.. I'm waiting until he says or does something because I want it to come from him ...I've thought about asking him, but something tells me it's not the right thing to do and I don't want to force him into anything... So I guess I just wait for now... Ive thought about what would happen if we did have a relationship and I wouldn't want it to change how we are now and I'm just waiting to see the outcome...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 July 2010):
He likes you. A sure sign that a guy likes you is that he is actively trying to spend time with you. He wants to tell you how he feels but is likely wondering what it will do to the friendship, if you'll respond positively, will you hate him for it... I can pretty much guarantee he has feelings for you.
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