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writes: [Mod Note* OP the title you suggested was already taken]ok so i'm a junior in high school and I have never been kissed. it pisses me off. people will tell me i'm beautiful all the time and I have just recently started to love myself and believe it. i'm a really nice person but shy and kinda socially awkward. I don't have many friends but I really want to try and make some new ones. i'm just really paranoid about what people think of me, how I dress ,and how I am as a person. I want to change and be more social and to have a bf but idk how. how do I change and get over the fact that I haven't kissed yet.please don't say sports cause I can't play a sport to save my life. hahaI want to change I want to be more social and I want a boyfriend, but I don't know how?
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
just stop thinking so hard... the next boy you see and like go ask hm out... as for how you dress just be appropriate... and be you... life is not as complicated as people make it
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): I have the same situation. I am a 13yr. old girl going into the 8th grade this August. I have never been kissed nor have I had a BF.Im really shy & paranoid & dont have many friends. But over the summer I have made changes to myself, and I feel great! I plan on having a great school yr.
My advice to you is that if you feel comfortable and love yourself then you should do fine. Boys like confident girls.Good Luck! Wish you the Best!:]
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reader, trustyourheart +, writes (22 July 2010):
I know how you feel, Im kinda parinoid abt wat ppl think, and i still dont have a bf. You could try to make new friends, find people that have the same interests as you. That took my mind off not having a bf, maybe itll work for you, too, I hope it does :)
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