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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello guys I'm going to get straight to the point, I have this beautiful girl who always says that she loves me. But lately I feel ignored, we play online games all of a sudden she logs in to the game we mostly play and tell me that she's been playing the other game the whole day. I told her why didn't she call me or log into msn and told me earlier all she said that "I didn't want to seem like a bother" I tolds her how can she be a bother I always need her and not only that, she said that she was sorry for not calling earlier but I told her that I feel less needed and ignored I'm even beginning to think that she might have met someone else but she tells me that I'm always needed in her book she even yelled it. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel she's changed, she would always wink at me and sort but not anymore... I need good advice plz thnx
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Ok, it could be one of 2 things. She's lost interest/met someone else or she really doesnt want to be a bother and is playing hard to get. It's hard to know what she is thinking because I do not know her. She could be insecure and feel like she doesnt want to come off too needy by getting online all the time or calling you. Maybe you came off too strong and scared her. Maybe she met someone. In this situation it is impossible to say what it is because no one but her really knows. You can ask but she says she does care. Bottom line, if you dont feel she cares about you enough you should let her go. Dont settle for less than how you wish to be treated. Really though no one here will be able to tell you what she is doing, just that it is harder to trust someone you date online. If you feel she no longer feels the same, move on. On a side note... If you honestly feel like she could possibly be cheating you, that is a bad sign. In which case you should defintely move on.
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