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I'm white and my new guy isn't. Will that affect our relationship at all?

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Question - (27 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

dear Aunt,

I have a question. I have this new guy in my life. We are together and he is sweet. Thing is, he is not white like me. I have no problem with that, but will it mean that he will want more from me or just be sweeter and nicer?

He is a genuine guy and although I have never been with a black guy before, I like him. Am just scared. How can I calm my nerves?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006):

Wow, these questions still exist today?

Like Smeedle pointed out, only difference between anyone is everything. The diff between Jet Li and Bruce Lee, is that Bruce actually had darker skin tone. Jet Li was born mainland, and Bruce Lee was born HK. I'm of Chinese origins, but my skin is 'white' with peachy flavors.

If it's a problem, then it's a problem in your head. That's it. I know a friend living in Mobile Alabama, who's dad is hardcore Christian caucasian. Her dad won't allow her to have relationships with coloured boys. When argued against, he simply says, "They're coloured. We're white American."

Dumb. So damn dumb!

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntThe only difference with him and guys you have been out with in the past is his skin colour, he is no different so stop worrying and just enjoy him.

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