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anonymous
writes: Sometimes when im having sex with my bf, although im wet down stairs, i dont really feel that horny. Why would i sometimes feel that way?
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reader, nikkipow229 +, writes (28 June 2010):
i have the same problem !!! and i'm only 30 years old i don't know what to do !!! i need help to!!
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reader, TheActor +, writes (16 October 2006):
hehe, well guys get erections like 20 times a day, without any reason at all. I'm guessing it is a similar situation, maybe try and get closer to him emotionally, or change something around, definately talk to him though, and if you're not embaressed while talking to him, chance are he won't be embaressed either =)
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reader, eddie +, writes (12 October 2006):
Women are more lubricated a certain times of the month. It's just that way.
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reader, Rainee +, writes (12 October 2006):
Because the two aren't neccessarily connected. It's normal to be pychologically disconnected (not horny) and physically aroused. Your body can respond to the right touches, but because of women's multi-tasking nature, you can be thinking about groceries you need to buy instead of "hey, this feels good, mmm". It might be a leftover mechanism from the days way back when sex was only for conceiving and for the pleasure of the man. The body NEEDS to respond, i.e. getting wet, so the woman isn't harmed by a penis ripping into her when she isn't really in the mood.
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (12 October 2006):
because your not as excited as normal i think when you feel horny your heart rate changes and you go tingly when you see them. Try not to think about it too much and do something that will make you horny pull out handcuffs and blindfold your boyfriend being domineering might turn you on?
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