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writes:I'm 18, female and have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. when we started sleeping together i didn't know that much about sex and it just kind of happened. as i have talked about sex with my friends more and have seen porn i have realised i'm attracted to women. on a daily bases i dont look at women in the street i look at men. but as ive thought about it more i dont know if im attracted to my boyfriend, ive never had an orgasm or felt really turned on. but i love him and dont want to leave hime just in case im gay. i cant get it out of my head. we share the same friends and hes close to my parents so if i told him everyone would find out. I really dont know what to do. i dont want to make a big mistake. has anyone had a similar situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Don't panic! If you are not checking out women in real life, you most likely are not gay! Girl-on-Girl Porn is so much more sensual than Guy and Girl Porn. I'm not gay but I have always turned me on more to watch women together than a man and a woman. I think a lot of women feel that way. But I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that you are gay. You may have an urge to be with a woman when you are watching it on the screen but if it has never come over you in an actual situation, there's nothing to worry about. So, just relax and enjoy the movie! You may even want to use the visual when you are with your guy and fantasizing...you just may have that orgasm! I think I was in my 30s before I had an orgasm. It doesn't mean you don't love your guy. You just need to experiment and be open and honest with him. Try new positions, get kinky, and role play...fantasize together! That's when sex really gets good!!!!
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