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I'm very apprehensive about a job I applied for!

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Question - (7 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I need some advice...I'm so confused re the job offer. I am absolutely broke and I have been looking for a job for 3 months now and I've been offered a manager role at a company. Ok salary, enough to pay bills and although company isn't dream place or job it's a job after-all even if only for a few years. However they offered me position starting in couple of weeks, but the said need to follow up on my references and then will report back. That was last week and nothing. I'm slightly scared as my last job I kinda said I had been a manager there, when i hadn't... I did run a few accounts but not manage and scared there realise this. I left the last company on good terms and was there for years. Now my saving grace is that company I have gone to are the rivals of my last one and they (job offer) said there take whatever the other company say with a pinch of salt.

Im now freaking out that there come back to me and say retracting job offer as references didn't pan out. I'm a massive worrier and that's the problem I panic over everything and anything. Men life jobs money etc etc.....

Also I'm scared that I won't be able to do the job....it's 6 months probation and that means weeks notice if they want to get rid of me that is making me worry as insecure... As said never did this role before, although know the industry.my dad says just rise to challenge but what if I can't, what if I now am told I don't have job because references said report back and scared.what if can't do the job and get fired and week later have no job.... I'm in a major panic over this

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A female reader, cheers Indonesia +, writes (10 August 2011):

cheers agony auntHi.Be confidence.Start mail resume to get job. Don't be choosy.It seems like You'd been worrying too much.Sometimes things doesn't turn out as bad as you imagine

Wish you all the Best for job seeking.You definitely can do it!

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