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writes:I started to see Mr unavailable last year,he did then didn't want a relationship as can't form them due to every night in pub and just too selfish (his words). I told him we can be friends he admitted to loving me. I told him its too confusing and will be seeing what else is around as I wanted more. We agreed friends,then he ignored me for 7 months, I was hurt. 7 months later I bump into him he confesses he loves me and missed me, can we go with the flow and not rush ,I agreed. During next three weeks I only saw him after I asked to meet up which was three times,he became distant and refused to discuss which way we were going,I knew from past experience it was going nowhere,I tried to talk to him but he refused to talk about it, he would text me every day about his day, I never saw him for two weeks so I started to see two of my ex's who are my friends, this guy saw me with one of them and ignored me again...refused to talk..I told him by text I can see who I want and asked him not to get moody..we met and spoke eventually and he said we were seeing each other, and how would I feel in his position,this was first I knew he thought that, he admitted he didn't want anymore than friends as too selfish, we agreed to be friends,again I tried the friendship thing for two days but to receive moody texts and ignored...I'm bit upset by this situation, why is he acting this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2015): mr unavailabel can also be known as mr hurtful and mr waste of time.The problem is that he puts on the charm when he sees you and then he forgets you because he is far to busy putting on the charm for someone else.I think mr unavailable would make a lousy friend as well as a lousy boyfriend.he doesnt know how to treat people nicely.He is probably in and out of the local brothel paying his twenty dollars for a blow job or quickie.He probably has a history of sexual diseases that is longer than your arm and he probably enjoys watching porn and jacking off more than he cares to admit.I dont understand why you would even consider him as partner material when he so clearly is not , so send him the sorry im moving on texts, no hard feelings and change your simm card so that you can have a chance at a decent life again.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 December 2015):
 Short answer: He is chucking a sad because he is not getting his way, block him and move on.
Longer answer: He has already told you he is not interested in a thinks relationship, he is telling you he loves you because he believes telling you that will get him into your knickers.
He did nothing during the initial 7 months to maintain a friendship, and then, once you randomly met him somewhere he again tells you he is not wanting anything serious or committed, but instead "go with the flow and not rush" .... he wants this all on his terms, and you seem to be accepting that !!! and more !!! WHY?
Why are you even bothering with this time waster? Block him and move on, there is nothing of substance here for you.
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